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[movies]Narcissist: You are Cardboard Cutouts, Avatars - Sam Vaknin
Narcissists often carry on talking (rather, lecturing) long after their interlocutors - bored stiff and resentful - have physically departed or mentally switched off. They are shocked to discover that they have been conversing with thin air for awhile. They are equally astounded when they are abandoned or shunned by spouses, friends, colleagues, the media, their fans, or audiences. The root of this recurrent astonishment is the narcissist's perverse object constancy...
Keywords: narcissist; narcissism; personality disorder; bonding; attachment; object relations; introjects; imagoes; self; narcissistic supply; avatars; symbols; representations; shock; astonishment; delusions; detachment
Downloads: 43
[movies]Stalked? Restraining Orders, Peace Bonds, Courts - Sam Vaknin
Involve the courts whenever possible. In many countries, the first step is to obtain a restraining order from a civil court as part of your divorce or custody proceedings or as a stand-alone measure. In some countries, the police applies to the court for an emergency protection order on your behalf. The difference between a protection order and a restraining order is that the former is obtained following an incident of domestic violence involving injury or damage to property, it is available imm...
Keywords: abuse; antisocial; battering; divorce; domestic violence; dsm-iv; ego; harassment; narcissism; narcissistic; narcissistic personality disorder; npd; object relations; personality; personality disorders; psychodynamics; psychopaths; psychotherapy; relationships; self; spousal abuse; stalking; psychopathology; therapy
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[movies]Abusive Ex: Tell Your Children the Truth! - Sam Vaknin
Children have a right to know the overall state of affairs between their parents. They have a right not to be cheated and deluded into thinking that "everything is basically OK" -- or that the separation is reversible. Both parents are under a moral obligation to tell their offspring the truth: the relationship is over for good. A responsible parent should teach the child how to resist inappropriate and hurtful actions...
Keywords: abuse; antisocial; battering; divorce; domestic violence; dsm-iv; ego; harassment; narcissism; narcissistic; narcissistic personality disorder; npd; object relations; personality; personality disorders; psychodynamics; psychopaths; psychotherapy; relationships; self; spousal abuse; stalking; psychopathology; therapy
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[movies]Forgive the Narcissist? - Sam Vaknin
Forgiving is an important capability. It does more for the forgiver than for the forgiven. But it should not be a universal, indiscriminate behaviour. It is legitimate not to forgive sometimes. It depends, of course, on the severity or duration of what was done to you. (From the book "Malignant Self-love: Narcissism Revisited" by Sam Vaknin - Click on this link to purchase the print book, or 16 e-books, or 2 DVDs with 12 hours of video lectures on narcissists, psychopaths, and abuse in relations...
Keywords: abuse; antisocial; battering; divorce; domestic violence; dsm-iv; ego; harassment; narcissism; narcissistic; narcissistic personality disorder; npd; object relations; personality; personality disorders; psychodynamics; psychopaths; psychotherapy; relationships; self; spousal abuse; stalking; psychopathology; therapy
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[movies]Paranoid Stalker Ex - Sam Vaknin
The most dangerous class of abusers is the paranoid-delusional. If your ex is one of these, he is likely to: Believe that you still love him (erotomania). Interpret everything you do or say -- even to third parties -- as "hidden messages" addressed to him and professing your undying devotion (ideas of reference). Confuse the physical with the emotional (regard sex as "proof" of love and be prone to rape you)...
Keywords: abuse; antisocial; battering; divorce; domestic violence; dsm-iv; ego; harassment; narcissism; narcissistic; narcissistic personality disorder; npd; object relations; personality; personality disorders; psychodynamics; psychopaths; psychotherapy; relationships; self; spousal abuse; stalking; psychopathology; therapy
Downloads: 52
[texts]Defeating Our Self-defeating Inner Voices - Sam Vaknin
Sometimes we need to confront our self-defeating inner voices - and defeat them!
Keywords: abuse; antisocial; battering; divorce; domestic violence; dsm-iv; ego; harassment; narcissism; narcissistic; narcissistic personality disorder; npd; object relations; personality; personality disorders; psychodynamics; psychopaths; psychotherapy; relationships; self; spousal abuse; stalking; psychopathology; therapy
Downloads: 71
[movies]Adapting to the Narcissist - Sam Vaknin
You cannot change people, not in the real, profound, deep sense. You can only adapt to them and adapt them to you. If you do find your narcissist rewarding at times â you should consider doing these: Determine your limits and boundaries. How much and in which ways can you adapt to him (i.e., accept him AS HE IS) and to which extent and in which ways would you like him to adapt to you (i.e., accept you as you are)...
Keywords: abuse; antisocial; battering; divorce; domestic violence; dsm-iv; ego; harassment; narcissism; narcissistic; narcissistic personality disorder; npd; object relations; personality; personality disorders; psychodynamics; psychopaths; psychotherapy; relationships; self; spousal abuse; stalking; psychopathology; therapy
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[movies]Stalked: Get Help - Sam Vaknin
Your first "fallback" option is your family. They are, in many cases (though by no means always) your natural allies. They can provide you with shelter, money, emotional support, and advice. Don't hesitate to call on them in times of need. Your friends and, to a lesser extent, your colleagues and neighbours will usually lend you a sympathetic ear and will provide you with useful tips. Merely talking to them can not only ease the burden â but protect you from future abuse...
Keywords: abuse; antisocial; battering; divorce; domestic violence; dsm-iv; ego; harassment; narcissism; narcissistic; narcissistic personality disorder; npd; object relations; personality; personality disorders; psychodynamics; psychopaths; psychotherapy; relationships; self; spousal abuse; stalking; psychopathology; therapy
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[movies]Types of of Abusive Behaviors: A Proposed Classification - Sam Vaknin
Everything You Need to Know about Narcissists, Psychopaths, and Abuse - click on this link: http://www.narcissistic-abuse.com/faq1.html Abusive conduct is not a uniform, homogeneous phenomenon. It stems and emanates from multiple sources and manifests in myriad ways. Following are a few useful distinctions which pertain to abuse and could serve as organizing, taxonomical principles (dimensional typologies) in a kind of matrix of pain...
Keywords: abuse; antisocial; battering; divorce; domestic violence; dsm-iv; ego; harassment; narcissism; narcissistic; narcissistic personality disorder; npd; object relations; personality; personality disorders; psychodynamics; psychopaths; psychotherapy; relationships; self; spousal abuse; stalking; psychopathology; therapy
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[movies]Stalked? Call Police and Law Enforcement! - Sam Vaknin
In most countries, the police must respond to your complaint. They cannot just file it away or suppress it. They must talk to you and to your partner separately and obtain written and signed statements from both parties. The police officer on the scene must inform you of your legal options. The officer in charge must also furnish you with a list of domestic violence shelters and other forms of help available in your community...
Keywords: abuse; antisocial; battering; divorce; domestic violence; dsm-iv; ego; harassment; narcissism; narcissistic; narcissistic personality disorder; npd; object relations; personality; personality disorders; psychodynamics; psychopaths; psychotherapy; relationships; self; spousal abuse; stalking; psychopathology; therapy
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[movies]Abusive Ex Leverages Children Against You - Sam Vaknin
The abuser often recruits his children to do his bidding. He uses them to tempt, convince, communicate, threaten, and otherwise manipulate his target, the children's other parent or a devoted relative (e.g., grandparents). He controls his - often gullible and unsuspecting - offspring exactly as he plans to control his ultimate prey. He employs the same mechanisms and devices. And he dumps his props unceremoniously when the job is done - which causes tremendous (and, typically, irreversible) emot...
Keywords: abuse; antisocial; battering; divorce; domestic violence; dsm-iv; ego; harassment; narcissism; narcissistic; narcissistic personality disorder; npd; object relations; personality; personality disorders; psychodynamics; psychopaths; psychotherapy; relationships; self; spousal abuse; stalking; psychopathology; therapy
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[movies]Narcissist and Psychopath Coping Techniques - Sam Vaknin
There are a few techniques which work wonders with abusers. Some psychologists recommend to treat repeat offenders as one would toddlers. The abuser is, indeed, an immature brat -- though a dangerous one, endowed as he is with the privileges and capabilities of an adult. Sometimes ignoring his temper tantrums until it is over is a wise policy. But not very often -- and, definitely not as a rule. (From the book "Malignant Self-love: Narcissism Revisited" by Sam Vaknin - Click on this link to purc...
Keywords: abuse; antisocial; battering; divorce; domestic violence; dsm-iv; ego; harassment; narcissism; narcissistic; narcissistic personality disorder; npd; object relations; personality; personality disorders; psychodynamics; psychopaths; psychotherapy; relationships; self; spousal abuse; stalking; psychopathology; therapy
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[movies]Victims Become Narcissists: Contagious Narcissism - Sam Vaknin
Some people adopt the role of a professional victim. In doing so, they become self-centred, devoid of empathy, abusive, and exploitative. In other words, they become narcissists. The role of "professional victims" - people whose existence and very identity rests solely and entirely on their victimhood - is well researched in victimology. It doesn't make for a nice reading. These victim "pros" are often more cruel, vengeful, vitriolic, lacking in compassion and violent than their abusers...
Keywords: abuse; antisocial; battering; divorce; domestic violence; dsm-iv; ego; harassment; narcissism; narcissistic; narcissistic personality disorder; npd; object relations; personality; personality disorders; psychodynamics; psychopaths; psychotherapy; relationships; self; spousal abuse; stalking; psychopathology; therapy
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[audio]Third Conversation: Audrey Michelle Talks to Sam Vaknin about Narcissism, Abusive Relationships - Sam Vaknin
Audrey Michelle Talks to Sam Vaknin about Narcissism, Narcissists, and Abuse in Intimate Relationships - Third Conversation.
Keywords: abuse; antisocial; battering; divorce; domestic violence; dsm-iv; ego; harassment; narcissism; narcissistic; narcissistic personality disorder; npd; object relations; personality; personality disorders; psychodynamics; psychopaths; psychotherapy; relationships; self; spousal abuse; stalking; psychopathology; therapy
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[movies]Interacting with Your Abuser - Sam Vaknin
Your abusive ex-partner will try to dazzle you with attention. Return all gifts he sends you â unopened and unacknowledged. Keep your communications with him to the bare, cold, minimum. Do not be impolite or abusive â it is precisely how he wants you to behave. It may be used against you in a court of law. Keep your cool but be firm. Do not let him re-enter your life surreptitiously. Stealth and ambient abuse are powerful tools...
Keywords: abuse; antisocial; battering; divorce; domestic violence; dsm-iv; ego; harassment; narcissism; narcissistic; narcissistic personality disorder; npd; object relations; personality; personality disorders; psychodynamics; psychopaths; psychotherapy; relationships; self; spousal abuse; stalking; psychopathology; therapy
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[movies]Cope with Narcissists: Abandon or Mirror - Sam Vaknin
Dump him and go about reconstructing your own life. Very few people deserve the kind of investment that is an absolute prerequisite to life with a narcissist. To cope with a narcissist is a full time, energy and emotion-draining job, which reduces people around him to insecure nervous wrecks. Who deserves such a sacrifice? No one, to my mind, not even the most brilliant, charming, breathtaking, suave narcissist...
Keywords: abuse; antisocial; battering; divorce; domestic violence; dsm-iv; ego; harassment; narcissism; narcissistic; narcissistic personality disorder; npd; object relations; personality; personality disorders; psychodynamics; psychopaths; psychotherapy; relationships; self; spousal abuse; stalking; psychopathology; therapy
Downloads: 109
[movies]Closure with Abusers - Sam Vaknin
For her traumatic wounds to heal, the victim of abuse requires closure - one final interaction with her tormentor in which he, hopefully, acknowledges his misbehaviour and even tenders an apology. Fat chance. Few abusers - especially if they are narcissistic - are amenable to such weakling pleasantries. More often, the abused are left to wallow in a poisonous stew of misery, self-pity, and self-recrimination...
Keywords: abuse; antisocial; battering; divorce; domestic violence; dsm-iv; ego; harassment; narcissism; narcissistic; narcissistic personality disorder; npd; object relations; personality; personality disorders; psychodynamics; psychopaths; psychotherapy; relationships; self; spousal abuse; stalking; psychopathology; therapy
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[movies]Two Narcissists in a Couple - Sam Vaknin
Two narcissists of the same type (somatic, cerebral, classic, compensatory, inverted, etc.) cannot maintain a stable, long-term full-fledged, and functional relationship. But if the narcissists involved are of different types, if one of them is cerebral and the other one somatic, a long-term partnership based on the mutual provision of Narcissistic Supply can definitely survive. (From the book "Malignant Self-love: Narcissism Revisited" by Sam Vaknin - Click on this link to purchase: http://www....
Keywords: abuse; antisocial; battering; divorce; domestic violence; dsm-iv; ego; harassment; narcissism; narcissistic; narcissistic personality disorder; npd; object relations; personality; personality disorders; psychodynamics; psychopaths; psychotherapy; relationships; self; spousal abuse; stalking; psychopathology; therapy
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[movies]Victims of Abuse: Recovery and Healing - Sam Vaknin
Victims of abuse in all its forms -- verbal, emotional, financial, physical, and sexual -- are often disorientated. They require not only therapy to heal their emotional wounds, but also practical guidance and topical education. At first, the victim is, naturally, distrustful and even hostile. The therapist or case worker must establish confidence and rapport painstakingly and patiently. The therapeutic alliance requires constant reassurance that the environment and treatment modalities chosen a...
Keywords: abuse; antisocial; battering; divorce; domestic violence; dsm-iv; ego; harassment; narcissism; narcissistic; narcissistic personality disorder; npd; object relations; personality; personality disorders; psychodynamics; psychopaths; psychotherapy; relationships; self; spousal abuse; stalking; psychopathology; therapy
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[movies]Effects of Abuse on Victims and Survivors - Sam Vaknin
Repeated abuse has long lasting pernicious and traumatic effects such as panic attacks, hypervigilance, sleep disturbances, flashbacks (intrusive memories), suicidal ideation, and psychosomatic symptoms. The victims experience shame, depression, anxiety, embarrassment, guilt, humiliation, abandonment, and an enhanced sense of vulnerability. (From the book "Malignant Self-love: Narcissism Revisited" by Sam Vaknin - Click on this link to purchase: http://www.narcissistic-abuse.com/thebook.html)
Keywords: abuse; antisocial; battering; divorce; domestic violence; dsm-iv; ego; harassment; narcissism; narcissistic; narcissistic personality disorder; npd; object relations; personality; personality disorders; psychodynamics; psychopaths; psychotherapy; relationships; self; spousal abuse; stalking; psychopathology; therapy
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[movies]Abuse By Proxy - Sam Vaknin
Abusers often use other people to do their dirty work for them. If all else fails, the abuser recruits friends, colleagues, mates, family members, the authorities, institutions, neighbours, the media, teachers â in short, third parties â to do his bidding. He uses them to cajole, coerce, threaten, stalk, offer, retreat, tempt, convince, harass, communicate and otherwise manipulate his target. He controls these unaware instruments exactly as he plans to control his ultimate prey...
Keywords: abuse; antisocial; battering; divorce; domestic violence; dsm-iv; ego; harassment; narcissism; narcissistic; narcissistic personality disorder; npd; object relations; personality; personality disorders; psychodynamics; psychopaths; psychotherapy; relationships; self; spousal abuse; stalking; psychopathology; therapy
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[movies]Mourning the Narcissist - Sam Vaknin
At the commencement of the relationship, the Narcissist is a dream-come-true. He is often intelligent, witty, charming, good looking, an achiever, empathetic, in need of love, loving, caring, attentive and much more. He is the perfect bundled answer to the nagging questions of life: finding meaning, companionship, compatibility and happiness. He is, in other words, ideal. It is difficult to let go of this idealized figure...
Keywords: abuse; antisocial; battering; divorce; domestic violence; dsm-iv; ego; harassment; narcissism; narcissistic; narcissistic personality disorder; npd; object relations; personality; personality disorders; psychodynamics; psychopaths; psychotherapy; relationships; self; spousal abuse; stalking; psychopathology; therapy
Downloads: 124
[movies]Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD) in Victims and Survivors of Abuse - Sam Vaknin
Contrary to popular misconceptions, Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD) and Acute Stress Disorder (or Reaction) are not typical responses to prolonged abuse. They are the outcomes of sudden exposure to severe or extreme stressors (stressful events). Yet, some victims whose life or body have been directly and unequivocally threatened by an abuser react by developing these syndromes. PTSD is, therefore, typically associated with the aftermath of physical and sexual abuse in both children and adu...
Keywords: abuse; antisocial; battering; divorce; domestic violence; dsm-iv; ego; harassment; narcissism; narcissistic; narcissistic personality disorder; npd; object relations; personality; personality disorders; psychodynamics; psychopaths; psychotherapy; relationships; self; spousal abuse; stalking; psychopathology; therapy
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[movies]Giving Narcissist Second Chance - Sam Vaknin
So, you go back to your "relationship" and hope for a better ending. You walk on eggshells. You become the epitome of submissiveness, a perfect Source of Narcissistic Supply, the ideal mate or spouse or partner or colleague. You keep your fingers crossed. But how does the narcissist react to the resurrection of the bond? (From the book "Malignant Self-love: Narcissism Revisited" by Sam Vaknin - Click on this link to purchase: http://www.narcissistic-abuse.com/thebook.html)
Keywords: abuse; antisocial; battering; divorce; domestic violence; dsm-iv; ego; harassment; narcissism; narcissistic; narcissistic personality disorder; npd; object relations; personality; personality disorders; psychodynamics; psychopaths; psychotherapy; relationships; self; spousal abuse; stalking; psychopathology; therapy
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[movies]Narcissist and Psychopath Coping Strategies: Submissive Posture - Sam Vaknin
Assuming that you want to stay with your abuser and to maintain the "relationship", maltreatment can, to some extent, be ameliorated or even avoided. Here's How. (From the book "Malignant Self-love: Narcissism Revisited" by Sam Vaknin - Click on this link to purchase: http://www.narcissistic-abuse.com/thebook.html)
Keywords: abuse; antisocial; battering; divorce; domestic violence; dsm-iv; ego; harassment; narcissism; narcissistic; narcissistic personality disorder; npd; object relations; personality; personality disorders; psychodynamics; psychopaths; psychotherapy; relationships; self; spousal abuse; stalking; psychopathology; therapy
Downloads: 126
[movies]Bullying as Art, Abuse as Craftsmanship - Sam Vaknin
Everything You Need to Know about Narcissists, Psychopaths, and Abuse - click on this link: http://www.narcissistic-abuse.com/faq1.html Psychopathic bullies and abusers regard themselves as artists: their bullying is a form of perfected art and their abuse â the epitome of craftsmanship. They are proud of their âachievementsâ and happily recount instances of pain and hurt inflicted on their victims...
Keywords: abuse; antisocial; battering; divorce; domestic violence; dsm-iv; ego; harassment; narcissism; narcissistic; narcissistic personality disorder; npd; object relations; personality; personality disorders; psychodynamics; psychopaths; psychotherapy; relationships; self; spousal abuse; stalking; psychopathology; therapy
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[movies]Gaslighting and Ambient Abuse - Sam Vaknin
Ambient abuse is the stealth, subtle, underground currents of maltreatment that sometimes go unnoticed even by the victims themselves, until it is too late. Ambient abuse penetrates and permeates everything -- but is difficult to pinpoint and identify. It is ambiguous, atmospheric, diffuse. Hence its insidious and pernicious effects. It is by far the most dangerous kind of abuse there is. It is the outcome of fear -- fear of violence, fear of the unknown, fear of the unpredictable, the capriciou...
Keywords: abuse; antisocial; battering; divorce; domestic violence; dsm-iv; ego; harassment; narcissism; narcissistic; narcissistic personality disorder; npd; object relations; personality; personality disorders; psychodynamics; psychopaths; psychotherapy; relationships; self; spousal abuse; stalking; psychopathology; therapy
Downloads: 134
[movies]Remain Friends with the Narcissist? - Sam Vaknin
Can't we act civilised and remain on friendly terms with our narcissist ex? Never forget that narcissists (full fledged ones) are nice and friendly only when: a. They want something from you -- Narcissistic Supply, help, support, votes, money... They prepare the ground, manipulate you and then come out with the "small favour" they need or ask you blatantly or surreptitiously for Narcissistic Supply ("What did you think about my performance...", "Do you think that I really deserve the Nobel Prize...
Keywords: abuse; antisocial; battering; divorce; domestic violence; dsm-iv; ego; harassment; narcissism; narcissistic; narcissistic personality disorder; npd; object relations; personality; personality disorders; psychodynamics; psychopaths; psychotherapy; relationships; self; spousal abuse; stalking; psychopathology; therapy
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[movies]The Paradox of the Monarchy - Catherine Grant
An archive video collage exploring some of the psychological and mediatized components of the public's relationship with the UK monarchy. It features excerpts from D.W. Winnicott's 1970 essay 'The Place of the Monarchy' (published in HOME IS WHERE WE START FROM: Essays by a Psychoanalyst, compiled and edited by Claire Winnicott, Ray Shepherd and Madeleine Davis [London: Penguin, 1986]). Although it doesn't mention this, Winnicott's essay was published after the broadcast of the ground-breaking R...
Keywords: monarchy; D.W. WInnicott; object relations; media and the inner world; psychoanalysis; George V; George VI; Elizabeth II; the British Royal Family; Queen; King; The Past Re-Imagined as the Future
Downloads: 299
[movies]Victim Through Abuser's Eyes: Audrey Michelle Talks to Sam Vaknin - Sam Vaknin
Abuse survivor, poet, and spoken word artist, Audrey Michelle, talks to Sam Vaknin, author of "Malignant Self-love: Narcissism Revisited": How Does the Abuser See the Victims of Abuse? Audrey Michelle: https://www.facebook.com/audreymichellepoet Sam Vaknin: https://www.facebook.com/samvaknin http://www.narcissistic-abuse.com Part of the Insight Enabled series.
Keywords: Survivor; victim; audrey michelle; sam vaknin; abuse; antisocial; battering; divorce; domestic violence; dsm-iv; ego; harassment; narcissism; narcissistic; narcissistic personality disorder; npd; object relations; personality; personality disorders; psychodynamics; psychopaths; psychotherapy; relationships; self; spousal abuse; stalking; psychopathology; therapy
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[texts]Surviving the Narcissist - Sam Vaknin
The victims of the narcissist's abusive conduct resort to fantasies and self-delusions to salve their pain.
Keywords: abuse; antisocial; battering; divorce; domestic violence; dsm-iv; ego; harassment; narcissism; narcissistic; narcissistic personality disorder; npd; object relations; personality; personality disorders; psychodynamics; psychopaths; psychotherapy; relationships; self; spousal abuse; stalking; psychopathology; therapy
Downloads: 155
[movies]Stalker Psychology - Sam Vaknin
Contrary to myths perpetuated by the mass media, studies show that most stalkers are men, have high IQ's, advanced degrees, and are middle aged (Meloy and Gothard, 1995; and Morrison, 2001). Rejected stalkers are intrusive and inordinately persistent. They recognize no boundaries â personal or legal. They honor to "contracts" and they pursue their target for years. They interpret rejection as a sign of the victim's continued interest and obsession with them...
Keywords: abuse; antisocial; battering; divorce; domestic violence; dsm-iv; ego; harassment; narcissism; narcissistic; narcissistic personality disorder; npd; object relations; personality; personality disorders; psychodynamics; psychopaths; psychotherapy; relationships; self; spousal abuse; stalking; psychopathology; therapy
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[texts]Coping with Stalking and Stalkers - Sam Vaknin
I. A Typology of Stalkers II. The Erotomanic Stalker III. The Narcissistic Stalker IV. The Psychopathic Stalker
Keywords: abuse; antisocial; battering; divorce; domestic violence; dsm-iv; ego; harassment; narcissism; narcissistic; narcissistic personality disorder; npd; object relations; personality; personality disorders; psychodynamics; psychopaths; psychotherapy; relationships; self; spousal abuse; stalking; psychopathology; therapy
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[movies]Domestic Violence Shelters - Sam Vaknin
When you move into a shelter, you must know in advance what your final destination is. Imagine and plan your life after the shelter. Do you intend to relocate? If so, would you need financial assistance? What about the children's education and friends? Can you find a job? Have everything sorted out. Only then, pack your things and leave your abuser. So, before you opt for moving with your children into a sheltered home or apartment, go through this check list.(From the book "Malignant Self-love:...
Keywords: abuse; antisocial; battering; divorce; domestic violence; dsm-iv; ego; harassment; narcissism; narcissistic; narcissistic personality disorder; npd; object relations; personality; personality disorders; psychodynamics; psychopaths; psychotherapy; relationships; self; spousal abuse; stalking; psychopathology; therapy
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[movies]Codependence and Dependent Personality Disorder - Sam Vaknin
The codependent molds himself/herself and bends over backward to cater to the needs of his nearest and dearest and satisfy their every whim, wish, expectation, and demand. Nothing is too unpleasant or unacceptable if it serves to secure the uninterrupted presence of the codependent's family and friends and the emotional sustenance s/he can extract (or extort) from them. The codependent does not feel fully alive when alone...
Keywords: abuse; antisocial; battering; divorce; domestic violence; dsm-iv; ego; harassment; narcissism; narcissistic; narcissistic personality disorder; npd; object relations; personality; personality disorders; psychodynamics; psychopaths; psychotherapy; relationships; self; spousal abuse; stalking; psychopathology; therapy
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[movies]Stalked: Your Getaway - Planning and Executing It - Sam Vaknin
Do not leave unprepared. Study and execute every detail of your getaway. This is especially important if your partner is violent. Be sure to make a Safety Plan â how to get out of the house unnoticed and the indispensable minimum items that you should carry with you, even on a short notice. (From the book "Malignant Self-love: Narcissism Revisited" by Sam Vaknin - Click on this link to purchase: http://www.narcissistic-abuse.com/thebook.html)
Keywords: abuse; antisocial; battering; divorce; domestic violence; dsm-iv; ego; harassment; narcissism; narcissistic; narcissistic personality disorder; npd; object relations; personality; personality disorders; psychodynamics; psychopaths; psychotherapy; relationships; self; spousal abuse; stalking; psychopathology; therapy
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[audio]Audrey Michelle Talks to Lidija Rangelovska, wife of narcissist and narcissism expert Sam Vaknin - Sam Vaknin
Audrey Michelle talks to Lidija Rangelovska, wife of Sam Vaknin, a psychopathic narcissist and an expert on narcissism as well as author of "Malignant Self-love: Narcissism Revisited" and other books about personality disorders and abuse in relationships.
Keywords: abuse; antisocial; battering; divorce; domestic violence; dsm-iv; ego; harassment; narcissism; narcissistic; narcissistic personality disorder; npd; object relations; personality; personality disorders; psychodynamics; psychopaths; psychotherapy; relationships; self; spousal abuse; stalking; psychopathology; therapy
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[movies]Narcissists Hate Children and Envy Them - Sam Vaknin
The Narcissist says: Children, to me, are both mirrors and competitors. They reflect authentically my constant need for adulation and attention. Their grandiose fantasies of omnipotence and omniscience are crass caricatures of my internal world. The way they abuse others and mistreat them hits close to home. Their innocuous charm, their endless curiosity, their fount of energy, their sulking, nagging, boasting, bragging, lying, and manipulating are mutations of my own behaviour...
Keywords: abuse; antisocial; battering; divorce; domestic violence; dsm-iv; ego; harassment; narcissism; narcissistic; narcissistic personality disorder; npd; object relations; personality; personality disorders; psychodynamics; psychopaths; psychotherapy; relationships; self; spousal abuse; stalking; psychopathology; therapy
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[movies]Spot a Narcissist or a Psychopath on Your First Date - Sam Vaknin
Is there anything you can do to avoid abusers and narcissists to start with? Are there any warning signs, any identifying marks, rules of thumb to shield you from the harrowing and traumatic experience of an abusive relationship? Imagine a first or second date. You can already tell if he is a would-be abuser. Here's how. (From the book "Malignant Self-love: Narcissism Revisited" by Sam Vaknin - Click on this link to purchase: http://www.narcissistic-abuse.com/thebook.html)
Keywords: abuse; antisocial; battering; divorce; domestic violence; dsm-iv; ego; harassment; narcissism; narcissistic; narcissistic personality disorder; npd; object relations; personality; personality disorders; psychodynamics; psychopaths; psychotherapy; relationships; self; spousal abuse; stalking; psychopathology; therapy
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[movies]Body Language of Narcissistic and Psychopathic Abusers - Sam Vaknin
Many abusers have a specific body language. It comprises an unequivocal series of subtle -- but discernible -- warning signs. Pay attention to the way your date comports himself -- and save yourself a lot of trouble! (From the book "Malignant Self-love: Narcissism Revisited" by Sam Vaknin - Click on this link to purchase: http://www.narcissistic-abuse.com/thebook.html)
Keywords: abuse; antisocial; battering; divorce; domestic violence; dsm-iv; ego; harassment; narcissism; narcissistic; narcissistic personality disorder; npd; object relations; personality; personality disorders; psychodynamics; psychopaths; psychotherapy; relationships; self; spousal abuse; stalking; psychopathology; therapy
Downloads: 220
[movies]Abuse in Relationships: gaslighting (ambient), overt, covert, by proxy - Sam Vaknin
Abuse in relationships has many guises: gaslighting (ambient), overt, covert, by proxy, Emotional, Verbal, and Psychological Abuse, Domestic and Family Violence and Spousal Abuse. (From the book "Malignant Self-love: Narcissism Revisited" by Sam Vaknin - Click on this link to purchase: http://www.narcissistic-abuse.com/thebook.html)
Keywords: abuse; antisocial; battering; divorce; domestic violence; dsm-iv; ego; harassment; narcissism; narcissistic; narcissistic personality disorder; npd; object relations; personality; personality disorders; psychodynamics; psychopaths; psychotherapy; relationships; self; spousal abuse; stalking; psychopathology; therapy
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[texts]Incest Taboo in Various Cultures and in History - Sam Vaknin
In contemporary thought, incest is invariably associated with child abuse and its horrific, long-lasting, and often irreversible consequences. Incest is not such a clear-cut matter as it has been made out to be over millennia of taboo. Many participants claim to have enjoyed the act and its physical and emotional consequences. It is often the result of seduction. In some cases, two consenting and fully informed adults are involved.
Keywords: incest; abuse; antisocial; battering; divorce; domestic violence; dsm-iv; ego; harassment; narcissism; narcissistic; narcissistic personality disorder; npd; object relations; personality; personality disorders; psychodynamics; psychopaths; psychotherapy; relationships; self; spousal abuse; stalking; psychopathology; therapy
Downloads: 989
[movies]Adulterous, Unfaithful Narcissists: Why Cheat and have Extramarital Affairs? - Sam Vaknin
Narcissists cheat on their spouses, commit adultery and have extramarital affairs and liaisons for a variety of reasons which reflect disparate psychodynamic processes. (From the book "Malignant Self-love: Narcissism Revisited" by Sam Vaknin - Click on this link to purchase: http://www.narcissistic-abuse.com/thebook.html)
Keywords: abuse; antisocial; battering; divorce; domestic violence; dsm-iv; ego; harassment; narcissism; narcissistic; narcissistic personality disorder; npd; object relations; personality; personality disorders; psychodynamics; psychopaths; psychotherapy; relationships; self; spousal abuse; stalking; psychopathology; therapy
Downloads: 185
[movies]Cope with Somatic Narcissist's Infidelity - Sam Vaknin
If you insist on staying with him -- you must also be prepared to serve as a Source of Narcissistic Supply, an alternative to the supply provided by his former lover. You must brace yourself: serving as a Narcissistic Supply Source is an onerous task, a full time job and a very ungrateful one at that. The narcissist's thirst for adulation, admiration, worship, approval, and attention can never by quenched...
Keywords: abuse; antisocial; battering; divorce; domestic violence; dsm-iv; ego; harassment; narcissism; narcissistic; narcissistic personality disorder; npd; object relations; personality; personality disorders; psychodynamics; psychopaths; psychotherapy; relationships; self; spousal abuse; stalking; psychopathology; therapy
Downloads: 93
[movies]Abuse Victim's New Year Resolutions - Sam Vaknin
1. I will treat myself with dignity and demand respect from others. I will not allow anyone to disrespect me. 2. I will set clear boundaries and make known to others what I regard as permissible and acceptable behavior and what is out of bounds. 3. I will not tolerate abuse and aggression in any form or guise. I will seek to terminate such misconduct instantly and unequivocally. 4. I will be assertive and unambiguous about my needs, wishes, and expectations from others...
Keywords: abuse; antisocial; battering; divorce; domestic violence; dsm-iv; ego; harassment; narcissism; narcissistic; narcissistic personality disorder; npd; object relations; personality; personality disorders; psychodynamics; psychopaths; psychotherapy; relationships; self; spousal abuse; stalking; psychopathology; therapy
Downloads: 45
[movies]Erotomaniac Stalker - Sam Vaknin
he erotomaniac stalker believes that he is in love with you. To show his keen interest, he keeps calling you, dropping by, writing e-mails, doing unsolicited errands "on your behalf", talking to your friends, co-workers, and family, and, in general, making himself available at all times. The erotomaniac feels free to make for you legal, financial, and emotional decisions and to commit you without your express consent or even knowledge...
Keywords: abuse; antisocial; battering; divorce; domestic violence; dsm-iv; ego; harassment; narcissism; narcissistic; narcissistic personality disorder; npd; object relations; personality; personality disorders; psychodynamics; psychopaths; psychotherapy; relationships; self; spousal abuse; stalking; psychopathology; therapy
Downloads: 89
[movies]Good People Ignore Abuse and Torture: Why? - Sam Vaknin
Why do good people - church-goers, pillars of the community, the salt of the earth - ignore abuse and neglect, even when it is on their doorstep and in their proverbial backyard (for instance, in families, hospitals, orphanages, shelters, prisons, and the like)? (From the book "Malignant Self-love: Narcissism Revisited" by Sam Vaknin - Click on this link to purchase: http://www.narcissistic-abuse.com/thebook.html)
Keywords: abuse; antisocial; battering; divorce; domestic violence; dsm-iv; ego; harassment; narcissism; narcissistic; narcissistic personality disorder; npd; object relations; personality; personality disorders; psychodynamics; psychopaths; psychotherapy; relationships; self; spousal abuse; stalking; psychopathology; therapy
Downloads: 73
[texts]Abuse, Trauma, and Torture - Their Consequences and Effects - Sam Vaknin
The effects on victims and survivors of traumatic experiences, long-term and repeated abuse, and torture. Includes in-depth profile of the Narcissistic Abuser and hundreds of links to literature and resources.
Keywords: abuse; antisocial; battering; divorce; domestic violence; dsm-iv; ego; harassment; narcissism; narcissistic; narcissistic personality disorder; npd; object relations; personality; personality disorders; psychodynamics; psychopaths; psychotherapy; relationships; self; spousal abuse; stalking; psychopathology; therapy
Downloads: 864
[texts]Narcissism Book of Quotes - Sam Vaknin
The Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD) and relationships with abusive narcissists and psychopaths: the point of view and lessons of the victims.
Keywords: abuse; antisocial; battering; divorce; domestic violence; dsm-iv; ego; harassment; narcissism; narcissistic; narcissistic personality disorder; npd; object relations; personality; personality disorders; psychodynamics; psychopaths; psychotherapy; relationships; self; spousal abuse; stalking; psychopathology; therapy
Downloads: 433
[audio]Audrey Michelle Talks to Sam Vaknin about Narcissism, Abusive Relationships - Sam Vaknin
Audrey Michelle Talks to Sam Vaknin about Narcissism, Narcissists, and Abuse in Intimate Relationships
Keywords: abuse; antisocial; battering; divorce; domestic violence; dsm-iv; ego; harassment; narcissism; narcissistic; narcissistic personality disorder; npd; object relations; personality; personality disorders; psychodynamics; psychopaths; psychotherapy; relationships; self; spousal abuse; stalking; psychopathology; therapy
Downloads: 288
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